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During my college internship, I once prepared a…
During my college internship, I once prepared a presentation that I was quite proud of. I had spent several hoursworking on it and felt that I had covered everything properly.When I presented it, my teacher listened carefully and then gave me some feedback. She appreciated my effort but also pointed out that my presentation was too detailed and that I had focusedmore on providing information than explaining it clearly.Honestly, I didn't like hearing that.For a moment, I felt that my hard work had not been appreciated. I wanted to explain why I had included everything and why I thought my approach was correct. But instead, I decided to listen.
Later that day, I went through my presentation again. This time, I looked at it from the audience's point of view rather than my own. I realised that my teacher was right. There was a lot of information, but the main ideas were not clear enough.I made the necessary changes and presented it again.
The second presentation was much better.That experience taught me an important lesson about feedback. We often accept appreciation easily but become defensive when someone points out our weaknesses. However, constructive criticism can sometimes help us improve more than praise does.
Since then, I have tried to listen carefully when someone gives me genuine feedback. I may not always agree with it, but I try to understand it before rejecting it
In professional and personal life, nobody can improve without recognising their weaknesses. Accepting feedback does not mean that we lack confidence. It means that we are willing to learn.I still remember that presentation because it taught me something beyond the subject itself: sometimes, the feedback we least want to hear is exactly what we need to hear.