comparison

Hello guys how are you I hope you all are doing great I am also very good so today I want to discuss on a very serious topic that is comparison it was also related to my story also mujhe lagta hai ki yeh Kai bacchon ki kahani bhi ho sakti hai to start karte Hain.
Subah parents compare there children with other unhe pata nahi hota hai ki how deeply there words can hurt because parents he vo first sabse pahle Insan hote hain jinki acceptance aur jinka point of view bacchon ke liye sabse jyada matter karta hai. Kahate Ho ki Reliance nahin karte ki yah chhoti Si baat Hai chahe vah Hansi majak mein Hi kahe ki uske bacchon Ko Dekho vah tumse Kitna behtar hai lekin how deeply yah bacchon ke man mein ghar kar jaega vah yah chij कभी-कभी nahin samajh paate Hain. Comparison can make a child feel that they are not enough woh itna saada over think karne lag jaate Hain ki unhen khud ki personalities pe khud ki capability pe efforts pe doubt hone lagta hai vah sochte Hain ki Kya Main enough Kya Meri jo mehnat hai vah mere parents Ko nahin dikh rahi hai kya main kuchh achcha kar raha hun Kya Main kabhi Apne parents ko proud Kar bhi paunga ya nahin ya Maine Jo carrier Kiya Hai usmein kuchh jyada time lag raha hai is vajah Se mere parents aisa bol rahe hain mere carrier choice hi galat hai. They start thinking that may be ho sakta hai ki padosi ka baccha mujhse Bator ho kya sach mein main itna jyada useless Hun ki mere parents Ko Kisi aur ke bacche Apne bacche Se jyada acche lag rahe hain unka Kam pasand a raha hai kya Maine kuchh galat kar diya hai apne sath. Aur chup Kisi mein self doubt a jata hai to use cure karna bahut hi mushkil ho jata hai because FIR bacche success isiliye nahin hona chahte kyunki vah chahte Hain vah isliye success hona chahte Hain taki unke parents proud ho sake aur comparison karna band kar de. At last main yahi kahana chahungi ki a child need your motivation not a constant reminder about another person success.