Chapter 2 of 2

A Blessing In Disguise

People who can't take no as an answer

Say no when you have to say No

Kikuchi37 minutes ago2 min read
People who can't take no as an answer

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"Oh so it's a no from your side. Is there a chance. I am going to ask you this one more time. "
We all might have come up with a situation like this right? Yes there are a lots and lots people who can't simply accept a no for an answer.
They expect a positive reaction from us all the time. But think about it what is the point of asking if they can't take a no as an answer.
Once I came up with a situation. It's that I have to give a feedback on a place I went for training to my college infront of my classmates. The set up was like we were doing it in a seminar hall. And my turn came and I was representing the five to eight members of my team went to that training center. Everyone I mean most of them expect oh it's she , she was going to tell something positive now. But I said some really unpleasant experience from there and all. They were all like oh is she saying a negative thing.
What is there to be so strange.
And another example this is important I met a guy we became friends and we were pretty close that for some time I would do literally everything he says. Note the point here he was my friend okay... But somethings came up and we got detatched. Then again we came up in contact . But at that point I stopped doing ' literally whatever he said" . One day he asked me to eat four chapathi . I said no. The next day onwards he stopped talking with me again. Really please my readers if there is any look at it can't I even decide how much my stomach needed.
And another experience, some new guy from my class i saw him while looking back ward to my teacher and our eyes met and I out of politeness I smiled at him. And the very next day onwards he asked me can we be besties... Can we go out for a coffee my answer remain no. Then he starts to body shame me.
Some NO need to said as No even if people surrounding can't accept that. Sometimes saying 'NO' is a blessing in disguise.

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