start of something

After all this , we finally confessed and started dating and I finally felt comfort I won’t say that,”yes we will always stay together we know our future will be together” because it’s about future as long as we have trust in each other we are working really hard to make a future for us and our families so even if destiny is not in favour for us I’m sure we will force the destiny to come in our favour. It’s not about thinking about future but making sure we are working hard for it. We are still young and we are trying to be our best versions for our families but at the same time we are the vulnerable versions for each other maybe that’s what we call a safe place. I have flaws too he has flaws too but that doesn’t change how we feel for each other. It’s been just a year but he treats me well, even if someday he doesn’t he makes sure to make me feel precious. I’m doing the same too , we still feel the same for each other as the photo attached it was from our first date I was very nervous and shy with him so my heart rate was drastically up it still happens. There are many people like us out there I hope everyone gets a beautiful person by heart in their life and treat them way better than they have desired. Our story started being hateful , weird but now it’s the most beautiful thing in my life. We are still learning and understanding each other we have our arguments which gets painful many of the times as nothing is perfect right? What’s important is how you overcome those things, how respectful you are, what lessons you learn from those arguments. If hurting someone doesn’t change your behaviour I’m sure that’s not the right person for you. I had this experience too and I am proud of myself after struggling so many years I choosed my happiness and got someone who is cherishing me even if we have those heated moments , we try to overcome it and as long as everything is a minimal mistake which is not hurting or making your partner insecure forgiving is a good choice but yes if you are getting hurt yourself please choose your own happiness no forgiveness for other people. At the end of the day it will be you who will get hurt and others will sleep peacefully.
I hope all the best to everyone as you deserve every happiness.