it's a hard pill to swallow but it changes how you see things.
AnonymousSep 21, 2026▲ 4
This really captures how people-pleasing can hurt both sides. The guilt makes sense, but you also learned something important: listen to your own wishes while still considering genuine safety concerns, instead of automatically letting others decide for you. ❤️
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yes thank you
AnonymousSep 21, 2026▲ 3
Your dad and grandmother told you to stay away because they were worried about your safety. You do not need to feel guilty. Additionally you need to start thinking about yourself instead of pleasing others.
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This really captures how people-pleasing can hurt both sides. The guilt makes sense, but you also learned something important: listen to your own wishes while still considering genuine safety concerns, instead of automatically letting others decide for you. ❤️
Your dad and grandmother told you to stay away because they were worried about your safety. You do not need to feel guilty. Additionally you need to start thinking about yourself instead of pleasing others.
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