Anonimo
relationships
Why am I constantly fighting?
Why am I the only one?
I love so hard and I get nothing back
I have been this way since I was young
My downfall is my heart
The devil knows it
The devil knows im like my mother
But im also like my father
I hate it but its true
I am who I am
But even when i tell the man I love
Tell him my pain tell him what bothers me
He doesnt listen
He hurts and it hurts me
He doesnt let himself love
He doesnt let himself be happy
Maybe its both of us
We all have our faults
But why is it only me fighting for us
What can I do?
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It’s truly exhausting to love someone so deeply while watching them build walls against their own happiness. You can pour your entire heart out, but if someone refuses to listen or let themselves feel, you end up breaking your own pieces trying to fix theirs. Your heart is a gift, not a downfall.
Sometimes, the hardest part of loving someone is realizing that love alone cannot make two people fight equally for the same relationship. You can communicate, forgive, explain your pain, and keep giving chances, but you cannot do the emotional work for both of you. Having a big heart is not your downfall, but forgetting that your heart deserves care too can hurt you deeply. You can love someone through their struggles without making their healing your responsibility. A relationship should not leave one person constantly begging to be heard while the other remains comfortable being unheard. Maybe you both have flaws, but the willingness to acknowledge them and change has to come from both sides. You deserve a love where you don’t always have to fight to feel loved. ❤️