What Living In A Hostel Taught Me

What Living In A Hostel Taught Me

I was always excited by the feeling of living on my own,I mean living alone. Because thats how you dont need no permission from anyone,no one to stop you doing from thing you like, You can be you with no limits. I was fascinated by doing things on my own untill i actually got the chance to move to hostel. I got this opportunity for completing my studies then i realised living alone is not like how i thought it should be. First few days you start missing you favourite people , And its a lesson…..

Chapter 1

Living alone

LIVING ALONE HAS ITS OWN WAY AND METHODS SOME TEACHES US ALOT ABOUT OURSELVES AND ABOUT WORLD,YOU EXPLORE A LOT NEW THINGS AND LEARN.ITS NOT ONLY WHEN WE THINK ABOUT LIVING FREELY ITS ALSO MEANS LIVING YOUR LIFE BEST WAY WITH YOURSELF, MANY PEOPLE ALSO SUFFER FROM LONELINESS,YOU DONT REALLY NEED TO BE LONELY WHILE LIVING ALONE,LONELINESS COMES WHEN YOURE AWAY FROM THE REAL WORLD AND LACK OF SELF APPRICIATION,LACK OF GOALS,OR SOMETIMES LOSING INTEREST WITH TIME IN EVEYTHING,ITS A WEIRD FEELING TO NOT BE SEEN ,BUT WHAT IS BEING SEEN ACTUALLY MEANS? IS IT PEOPLE NOTICING YOUR EFFORTS? IS IT PEOPLE NOTICING YOU WORK? IS IT NEEDING A LITTLE REASSURANCE? WELL THESE SOMEHOW ALIGN THERE BUT NOT REALLY LONILESS , LONELINESS DOESNT ALWAYS COME FROM BEING ALONE,IT COMES FROM A GAP BETWEEN THE CONNECTION YOU NEED AND THE CONNECTION YOU FEEL YOU HAVE.
IT COULD BE :
LACK OF MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS
MAJOR LIFE CHANGES
SOCIAL ISOLATION
MENTAL HEALTH
WHILE BEING ALONE MEANS ENJOYING YOUR OWN COMPANY,SPENDING ALOT OF TIME WITH YOURSELF AND LEARNING SKILLS OR JUST DOING THINGS ON YOUR OWN.
Remember you’re not lonely , you can always resch out to your friends, family.
TIMES MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER!!