Journey of unlearning

Journey of unlearning

Some life lessons hold us back from accessing our full potential. Some lessons are passed from generations, however that does mean they are relevant. Some life lessons we need to unlearn. This is my unlearning journey.

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  1. 1Hide your imperfectionsHide your imperfectionsRight from our childhood we are taught a lot of lessons. Some of these lessons shape us and help us progress in our lives. However some of these lessons hold us3 min read3 comments
  2. 2Others first, ALWAYSOthers first, ALWAYSAs a young girl another lesson that was taught to me was "NEEDS OF OTHERS ALWAYS COME FIRST. YOU MUST SACRIFICE YOUR DREAMS TO FULLFILL THOSE OF OTHERS". Thi3 min read5 comments
  3. 3Keep a stiff upper lipKeep a stiff upper lipAs a young girl I was taught a lesson: keep a stiff upper lip. It had deeper meaning to it. It indicated that we should keep our personal struggles away from th3 min read4 comments
  4. 4Forgive and forgetForgive and forgetI remember my granny telling me in my childhood, "when you will grow up, you will meet many people. Sometimes they are not kind. They say mean things. They woul3 min read4 comments
  5. 5Bad things will happenBad things will happenOne saying that was often heard in my family was "विपरीत तेच होईल" (translation: there will only be the adverse outcome). My parents who were born after India's3 min read3 comments
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Amruta KanekarOct 21, 2026▲ 3

I had heard from so many people about unlearning. I would look forward to understanding which skills you are referring to. in my opinion unlearning is equally important as learning.

SidOct 21, 2026▲ 4

I really like the idea of unlearning things we grew up believing without ever questioning them. Sometimes we carry certain beliefs simply because they were passed down to us, not because they actually help us grow. Realising that something familiar isn't always right takes courage, especially when it's connected to family, society, or the way we've always seen ourselves. I think unlearning is just as important as learning because it gives us the freedom to understand ourselves better and choose what truly feels right for us. 🤍

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There is a lot to unpack here. I have just begun

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